Why is Anger Necessary – it’s a Timing Thing
Women and men are socialised differently. This is an energy ‘thing’. Women are not allowed to express anger in the same way as a man. It’s not only women who may be suppressing their anger due to socialisation and cultural upbringing, also people who are raised in a particular way.
How does childhood make anger necessary?
This is a tough question to answer. Anger is typically regarded as an ugly thing – usually by women. It’s always dangerous to make sweeping statements about how people are. That’s why I say typically and usually.
The short answer is that without anger at the right time our personality lacks respect. When the personality lacks respect it is heavily oppressed and isolated.
Jesus shows us that anger is necessary (sometimes)…
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If there is a Jesus who apparently went to the temple to overthrow the tables in anger, this clearly shows us that anger is necessary. All the prophets express anger at the right time.
What’s the timing thing?
The timing thing is unique to each person based on his or her personality. Masculine men can sometimes fall short when it comes to displaying anger at the right time. The target for the manly man is to have what he calls controlled aggression. This is an example of expressing anger at a time which benefits his agenda and purpose.