The Art of Ignoring A Person
When we ignore people deliberately we get a sexy feeling that is deeply unconscious.
I am able to activate the underlying and very painful memories associated with deliberately ignoring a person.
When it’s your own mother ignoring you deliberately, unfortunately this reveals that she is gaining a good feeling at your expense. However, the child is the victim, the child is needed excessively in order for the parent to feel well. The child is a carer, a young carer even well into adulthood.
It’s a bit sick.
Ignoring A Person How Does It Work?…
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When your parent’s fondest memories are with the opposite sex, her highest memories are often sexual. Therefore her painful memories are wrapped in a sexual experience. You have to know that this is incredibly disturbing and we regret to recognise that many men and women experience this with a parent or a loved one after a break up.
What About Consciously Locking A Person Off?
Admittedly, some people are not good for us. We may ‘lock them off’ (black culture for stop communicating with a person), out of a desire to respect your own energy. This is not deliberately ignoring a person you care about or once did. It does not feel sexual.