Hate For Your Own Mother

Is It Normal To Not Love Your Mother?

I suppose it depends on who you think you are. When we don’t express the hatred that was given to us we end up hating ourselves. Expressing hate at the right people is important for self-respect and dignity. The hate has to go to someone, often it goes towards our new love interest. We fall into a love hate relationship. If you want to have a loving relationship with your partner then learning to hate your mum may be the answer.

Is It Bad to Hate Your Mother?

It’s acceptable to feel like a bad person for hating mum. But if you love her, and the neglect and abandonment she feels towards you then you only attract more of the same shit. The bad feeling has to go somewhere. As a child you were her bad feeling. Se didn’t really want to have you and made you feel bad about yourself every fucking day. So society may see it as bad to hate mum, but would you rather feel the same bad feeling you felt as a child growing up?

How Does Hate For Your Mother Develop?

It can be a healthy sign of self-growth. I watched other teenagers express hatred for their mothers, even blaming them for being born. They do not carry the same heavy vibrations of guilt into adulthood for their dysfunctional childhood. Suicidal tendencies can develop when we develop hate within our thinking and project it inwardly towards ourselves. I developed hatred for my own mother later in life. It’s something that I embrace and welcome. I feel free and without co-dependency. I feel less need to hate others and I feel a new sense of liberty to love my partner in a healthy way.

Being Spoiled As A Replacement For Real Love

You may have been terribly spoiled as a child, showered with gifts and presents that had no meaning. You may have felt lonely on birthdays and during family occasions. Gifts replaced real love. A gift with attention and feeling has way more value.

Hatred For Women As A Consequence of Hating Your Own Mother

Hate for you mother can develop into a deeper hatred for women. Your relationships with women tend to fail or end badly. You feel love in reality but the hatred expresses itself in the astral plane. Imagining hurting women in the mental plane can be a tool to releasing the hatred you feel towards your partner. We are scared of our own imagination. We think that what we imagine might come true. The imagination is where we express what we truly want. If we do not want to hate women or our love interests then expressing our deep desire to hate her in the astral can be cathartic release.